Burden Me

The past couple weeks have seen more than their share of drama.  In a nutshell, we learned that our fingerprint paperwork for our Chinese adoption ended up at the US Embassy in Ethiopia.  It took almost two weeks of constant emails and phone calls to the USCIS, the NVC, Senator Boxer, Senator Feinstein, and Congressman Campbell, but the issue finally got resolved.  Of course, Amber did nearly all of the legwork.  She even had to drive to the USCIS office in LA and spend a day giving stone-cold office workers the guilt-trip showing them pictures of our little girl who can come home to us if only they would DO THEIR JOB.  It worked.  The right paperwork reached Ethiopia days later.  Awesome!

Now for the real topic of this post.  We want you to burden us.  Burden us down with donations to hand carry to Ethiopia.  Donations to meet real needs of real orphans.  We will hopefully be traveling to Ethiopia in a few weeks, and we plan to take as much cargo as we can handle with us.  It's way cheaper and way more reliable to be a "mule" and pay the extra luggage fees to get donations to the orphanages and transition home than it is to ship donations.  So this is a call for donations to take with us.  There are some specific needs that have been expressed by our agency:

• TOOTHPASTE (we already have over 150 toothbrushes)
• DEODORANT
• HAND SOAP
• CLOTHES PINS
• BOY'S UNDERWEAR (sizes 6 and under specifically)
• TODDLER-10 YEAR OLD UNDERWEAR (boys & girls)
• SIZE SMALL SCRUBS FOR NANNIES ("5 for 10" stores have deals)
• BABY WIPES
• SOCCER BALLS & PUMPS (for the street kids)
• BABY BOUNCER SEATS

It would be a great problem to have if we had more donations than we could possibly manage.  If you're interested in dropping off some donations, please drop me (Bryan) a line so we can work out the details.  

Introducing Eleora Marije Booy

Our adoption petition passed the court process in Ethiopia last night!  She is now legally our new daughter!  We've chosen the name Eleora Marije Booy.  Check out the little slideshow we put togheter last weekend.  I'll post more details later, but it looks like we might travel to get her sometime in July or August.


Create your own video slideshow at animoto.com.

THE CALL

Yes indeed.  Every parent that has already experienced the international adoption process knows what I'm talking about.  One of the biggest milestones in the entire adoption process is the day when you get that call from your agency to announce the details of your child referral.  Today was that day for us! 
Our coordinator called Amber first, then the two of them called me.  When I got the call, I was in the midst of another super-busy afternoon.  I hit the answer button on my phone, and initially thought, "D'oh!  I don't recognize that phone number.  I should have just let that go to voicemail. Oh well, I have to answer it now."  I was immediately hit with the significance of the call when I heard the lady's voice on the line congratulating me that this is my referral call.
Our coordinator gave us the essentials.  Amber had the presence of mind to ask a few good questions.  I mostly just listened and took notes.  Afterward, Amber and I chatted.  She was so blown away she had to stop baking the cookies she was working on.  She couldn't work the oven timer any more!  All my office mates were watching me take the call the whole time.  I felt like I was on stage.  Weird.  It was cool to share the moment with them though.  We're pretty tight.
Unfortunately (and this pains me to say) we can't divulge most of the details of the referral.  I know!  That stinks, right?!  Privacy laws are strict, and I don't want to do anything to endanger the adoption process for us or her by being stupid on the Internet.  I can share that she is a really healthy 2 month old baby Ethiopian girl.  We do have 2 pictures of her, and she is SUPER CUTE.  I'm being objective, and you'll have to trust me on this for now.  We have all kinds of medical reports that all say she has no health issues, which is awesome.  She's obviously being fed WELL. :D
I'm pretty floored that she is so young!  I was totally expecting a referral for a child near the older end of our requested age range since young babies are in higher demand.  We'll be getting her just at that baby sweet spot (from a dad's point of view), when they're beyond that boring infant stage when they just eat and sleep.  Sure infants are cute, but dad's like to INTERACT!  I can't wait to share more details about her, but I'll have to wait a few weeks.  Travel dates are dependent on a lot of variables still, but let's just say 2-4 more months for now.  Totally stoked!  Thank you, Jesus.

We are ON DECK!

This is a really good sign!  We received an email from our adoption agency last Friday, officially putting us "on-deck".  What that means is that our family "could receive a referral within the next one to three months".  Yes, they're giving themselves a lot of latitude, and we're trying not to get too excited, but we have had numerous friends who received their referrals within days of receiving an "on-deck" email.

We're noticing quite a few referrals for kids from our agency once again.  That's good to see, because it says that a lot of the weirdness we saw in the weeks following the Haiti earthquake seem to be behind us now.  Unfortunately we're almost definitely going to have to travel twice, but at least adoptions are moving forward.

Stuff is feeling even more real now.

-bryan

Tortuga Reviewed on "Take It From Me"

Our hat company, "Tortuga Clothing" has generally gone through cycles of interest and activity.  Right now it seems to be hitting a high point in both.  We are currently participating in a product review / giveaway with the blog "Take It From Me".  They kindly invited us into the deal, and we're very pleased with all the feedback and interest.  Even though I managed to add about 30 new hats to the Etsy shop, there are still another 40 or so to post.  I really should market that shop better than I do.  Maybe this will give me more incentive to do just that, as well as the other fundraiser idea...T-SHIRTS.

I've already started talking with a silkscreener, but the initial momentum has died away.  If any of you wants to try their hand at a t-shirt design, feel free to contact me.

New Releases at Tortuga Clothing

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I'm finally getting around to posting new stock on our Etsy store for Tortuga Clothing.  I actually took new photos for all the new hats some time ago, but life gets complicated and the next thing you know...too much time passes.  So without further adieu, we're releasing a few new designs that we think you'll love.  

My personal fave is the Cali Beanie, which we have several color / stripe combinations to offer.  

We're also introducing Kitty Mitts to complement the Audrey Beanie.  These fingerless gloves are constructed of the same yarn as the Audreys, so they make a good combo.  

You'll notice in the new photos that we actually have heads modeling the new designs.  Each of the 3 heads was hand painted by either Amber, Audrey, or Halina.  I also added an actual banner design to the Etsy store.  It's not exactly what I had in mind, but I struggled a bit with the free online design tools.  Don't get me wrong, I think Aviary is great.  I just don't have a lot of skill with it yet.

I'm hoping the weather stays cool for a while longer to inspire the world to wear our beanies and support our adoptions.  

Fun With Zombies

Amber and I had a little excursion to the Department of Homeland Security this morning.  Our fingerprints on file with them are only valid for a year, so had to go give them a fresh picture of our mitts.  At this point I've had more experience with government agencies than I ever really hoped to have in my life.  Still, time fades the memories of each experience, and I wasn't expecting for my patience to be put to the test like it was today.
We did remember that this particular branch does not allow mobile phones at all.  We later learned that this rule is completely arbitrary and was dictated by the DHS officer of that branch simply because she doesn't like people in her branch using mobile phones.  The stuff you learn when you get to chat-it-up with a bored security guard making $25/hr.  Yep, he shared that with us, too.
After filling out our paperwork, we had a lot of time to kill until being seen by the receptionist at "station 2".  Since I was without my iPhone and didn't have the forethought to bring anything paper to read, we tried to occupy our brains with some people watching.  Believe me, there's a lot to observe in that crowd.  Amber had a hard time controlling herself when I made a comment about how every employee in that office shuffled around like they were all on quaaludes.  I mean, they were completely listless and had no apparent awareness of the 40-50 people in the waiting area waiting to get fingerprinted.  Let's hope the zombies did a good job with our fingerprints and paperwork update.  We'll see them again next year I'm sure.
>bryan